How to do anal masturbation for men and what to look out for

Male anal masturbation is practically hidden, but it is actually very popular.

This is because male anal masturbation provides pleasure that is not available through regular masturbation.

Women also have an anus, but there is only one reason why male anal masturbation is so popular: the stimulation of the prostate gland, which is unique to men, is located near the anus.


Once you become familiar with anal masturbation, in the future you can achieve dry orgasms and male squirt by stimulating the prostate gland.

Of course, there is also the pleasure of simply expanding the anus and the artificial pleasure of deliberately creating an interlude between defecations!

In this article, we will show beginners how to perform anal masturbation and sex toys for safe anal stimulation.

It takes longer than the penis to achieve anal orgasm, but this article will help you enjoy masturbation safely.

What is the appeal of anal masturbation?

Anal benefits obtained by beginners and advanced users differ.

Anal masturbation beginner
  • Pleasure of opening and closing the anus
  • Pleasant sensation like defecation
  • Sense of taboo enhances arousal

Anal beginners may feel uncomfortable with anal stimulation at first, but once they get used to it, the thrill of insertion becomes addictive.

As you repeat anal masturbation, your anus will expand and you will be able to use anal dildos and anal vibrators.

Advanced anal masturbation
  • Dry orgasm with prostate stimulation
  • Male Squirting

On the other hand, advanced users can experience a dry orgasm by stimulating the prostate deep inside the anus while using an anal toy.

Dry orgasm is the ultimate pleasure that does not involve ejaculation and is more intense than ejaculation.

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Not only women but also men can experience squirting.

When the penis and anus are continuously stimulated without resting after ejaculation, a urine-like substance is released.

This is a very different pleasure from penile masturbation.

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How to perform anal masturbation

Below are the steps for anal masturbation.

Beginners should refer to the steps to become familiar with anal masturbation.

  1. Anal cleansing
  2. Anal massage
  3. Anal Expansion
  4. Find the best position
  5. Slowly insert the toy into the anus

We will review each step in detail.

Anal cleaning

Both beginners and advanced users start with anal cleaning.

If you don’t clean properly, you may get faeces on your fingers and the odour will make you less aroused.

There is also a risk of infection if dirty fingers touch the penis, eyes or other mucous membranes.

  • Taking a dump
  • Filling the anus with water or cleaning fluid
  • Wait 5 minutes and defecate
  • Repeat 2-3 times

The easiest way to inject water into the anus is in the shower.

Remove the head part of the shower and apply the hose to the anus to inject the water.

This is made even easier if you have a cleaning solution that can be injected.

Once you have cleaned the anus, you can move on to the next step.


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Anal massage

The anus is basically an organ specialising in excretion and is not used to having foreign objects inserted from the outside.

Therefore, it is necessary to massage and relax the muscles around the anus first, rather than suddenly inserting a finger.

  • From inside to outside
  • From outside to inside
  • Use your fingers in a circular motion
  • Press around the anus

While massaging, the anal muscles can be further relaxed by relaxing the body.

Massage in a comfortable position, breathe slowly and relax your body and mind before moving on to the next step.


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Anal Expansion

After the anal massage is completed, the anus is slowly dilated.


The anus is extremely sensitive. Attempting to dilate it with your fingers risks hurting it, so it is recommended that you use a safely designed anal plug.

Apply lubricant around the anus and plug and insert slowly.

It takes time to get used to anal insertion. Practice with the anal plug patiently until you feel no discomfort.

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Find the best position

Position is very important in anal masturbation.

Different people are comfortable in different positions.

Try out the most common positions and masturbate in the way that works best for you.

①Open Leg Anal Masturbation
Easy to insert fingers and anal toys
Easy to see the insertion area

②Sitting on one’s side, anal masturbation
Easy adjustment of stimulation
Simultaneous anal and penile stimulation

③Anal Masturbation with doggy style
Like you are being penetrated from behind
Easy to open the anus

④Cowgirl position anal masturbation
Enjoy the pleasure of intense pistons
Masturbation in cowgirl position

You should start out with anal masturbation in the basic positions listed above.

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Slowly insert the toy into the anus

Always check the anus for dryness before inserting into the anus.

Since the anus dries out in a short time, it is a good idea to use a high-viscosity lubricant that keeps the anus moist for a long time.

Although anal stimulation can be achieved with fingers, anal toys are designed for accurate and safe stimulation.

Anal plugs provide an expanding sensation while expanding the anus.

Metal plugs are the most popular due to their durability, while silicone plugs and vibrating plugs are also available.

Anal dildos and anal vibrators are also recommended for experienced anal users.

They can provide realistic penis insertion and small vibrations that cannot be produced by humans, and can achieve anal orgasm.

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Cautions on anal masturbation

There are a number of precautions that must be followed in anal masturbation.

It is completely different in nature from regular masturbation and can be hazardous to your health if done incorrectly.

Be sure to remember these precautions

  • It takes time to feel pleasure
  • Use Sex Lubricant with high viscosity
  • Attach the condom
  • Do not use large anal toys at first

These details are explained below, so be sure to check and remember them before you start anal masturbation.

It takes time to feel pleasure

Unlike penile masturbation, anal masturbation does not provide immediate pleasure.

It inevitably takes time, as the pleasure gradually increases with experience.

If you want to feel pleasure from anal masturbation as quickly as possible, it is recommended to stimulate the penis and nipples together.

By stimulating the parts of the body that are easier to get pleasure from together than the anus, you can easily change your body constitution to one that is easier to get pleasure from anal masturbation.


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Use Sex Lubricant with high viscosity

Sex Lubricant is essential for using Anal toy.

As mentioned in the section ‘Injecting Sex Lubricant’, the anus is very sensitive and can easily be hurted if not protected with Sex Lubricant.

It is especially important to use a Sex Lubricant with a high viscosity and long-lasting stickiness when using it in the anus.

For example, this Sex Lubricant is recommended.

Low viscosity sex lubricant does not keep you moist, so you can’t get lost in masturbation.

It also costs money because you consume a lot of Sex Lubricant in one masturbation session.

Be sure to prepare Sex Lubricant with a high viscosity.

Wear a condom if you want to put your fingers in

As mentioned earlier in the section on ‘anal cleaning’, safety considerations are essential when performing anal masturbation.

Even if you clean thoroughly, it is not enough.

It can finally be said to be complete when condoms are attached to the fingers and anal toy that are inserted into the anus.

Although some may find it a hassle, wearing a condom saves you the trouble of cleaning your fingers and Anal toy.

Use condom to be safe and to immerse yourself in anal masturbation.

Beginners do not use big anal toys

As mentioned in the section on ‘Massaging and relaxing the anus’, it is not possible to insert a large Anal toy right from the start.

Even if you want to use an anal toy as thick as a penis, you have to step up gradually, starting with fingers and thinner anal toys.

  • Rs 1280
  • set of three
    • Rs 780
    • minimum size
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    • With suction cup

These are the most popular anal Dildo products.

In the process of gradually increasing in size, it is a good idea to find your favourite Anal toy.


Anal toy recommended for beginners

If you don’t have an Anal toy yet, or you’re not sure what to buy, then we have the perfect product for you.

That’s the Beginner Set, which you can find here.

The set includes a Butt Plug for anal extension, three Dildos, each with a different shape, and a Sex Lubricant, all essential for comfortable anal masturbation.

The set contains everything a beginner anal masturbator needs, but is priced at only Rs 2000.

If you are a beginner who wants to achieve the best anal masturbation, don’t hesitate to buy this product.


Anal masturbation is very different from regular masturbation in terms of the steps and precautions to be taken.

While it can provide great pleasure, it is also a very sensitive area, so it is important to take your time and enjoy it.

It is also recommended to use Anal toy if you want to get stronger pleasure.


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