[For women] Which is better for your first sex toy, a dildo or a vibrator?

The most popular sex toys for women are dildos and vibrators. Both are very popular because they are easy to use and can be used for both masturbation and sex.

When you’re trying to choose something first, you can’t go wrong if you pick the most popular one first! Many people may think that this is a good idea.

The same can be said for sex toys. But if there are two popular ones, don’t you think you should be worried? So, the staff at Sex Toys INDIA has decided to explain which one is better, a dildo or a vibrator, for women who are choosing a sex toy for the first time!

We explains the advantages of dildos and vibrators according to where you want to feel orgasm. If you are wondering which one is better?

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If you are wondering which one is better, please read to the end. You will find your answer toy!

The difference between a dildo and a vibrator

The difference between a dildo and a vibrator is whether it vibrates or not. A vibrator has a built-in motor and vibrates when the motor rotates, but the dildo does not vibrate because it is a penis-shaped device. Also, dildos have suction cups that can be attached to the floor or wall, or can stand on their own. In contrast, most vibrators do not stand on their own.

Also, dildos do not have a built-in motor or other electronic components, so you can use them wherever you want. Most dildos are completely waterproof and can be washed in water after use. Some vibrators are completely waterproof, depending on the type, but most are only water-resistant.

There are also dildos, which are vibrators that combine a dildo and vibrator in one unit and have a vibration function.

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That was the definition of vibrator and dildo.

STI Girl

Personally, I like dildos because they don’t break, and electrical appliances are a hassle if they break.

There are two ways for a woman to cum(Orgasm)

Women can cum in two main ways (cumming is also referred to as having an orgasm). The stimulation of the sexual organs causes the uterus, vagina and anal sphincter to tense up and release at once. A woman feels a great sense of pleasure and a pleasant sense of exhaustion at this time.

There are two ways to cum: outside orgasm and inside orgasm. outside orgasm is an orgasm that is felt by stimulating the clitoris, the organ of the woman’s vagina.

In contrast, inside orgasm is an orgasm that is felt by stimulating the place called the G spot in the vagina, and in fact, there is a place called the Portia (uterus) and the A spot beside the G spot, and orgasm can be felt by stimulating these places.

However, it is more difficult and time-consuming than the development of the G-spot, so we’ll focus on the inside orgasm = G-spot.

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If you want to know more about orgasm, go to the article below!

The Complete First Orgasm Guide! To Types of Female Orgasms

Outside orgasm (clitoris)

The outside orgasm is an orgasm caused by stimulating the clitoris with a finger, mouth or sex toy. The clitoris is a place where 8,000 nerves are gathered, and it is a part that feels stimulation very easily, so it senses even a little stimulation sensitively. Therefore, it is relatively easy to develop even if you have never masturbated or had sex much.

Think of the clitoris as the part of the male penis that hits the glans; the outside orgasm is relatively easy to develop compared to the inside orgasm. There are many cases where the genitals are somehow touched at an early age and the outside orgasm is pleasurable….

If you compare the stimulation of the outside orgasm, it is “a pleasant sensation like electricity flowing”, and if you continue to stimulate the clitoris, a numbing sensation rises in you. After you feel this pleasure, you will feel crisp and awake. There is almost no lingering sensation and the pleasure does not last. It is possible to feel the orgasm again in outside orgasm, but it does not happen in outside orgasm that you come continuously.

Check here if you are interested in clitoris masturbation

What is a clitoral orgasm and how it differs from an inside orgasm

Inside orgasm (G-spot)

The inside orgasm is felt at a place called the G-spot, which is the sexual area in front of the woman’s vagina 3 to 5 cm in length and is characterized by its slightly rough texture. The G-spot is said to be the equivalent of a man’s prostate and is about the size of a coin. It is an organ that is just an extension of the clitoris.

The G-spot does not feel very pleasant at first, even if you stimulate it. On the contrary, it may feel uncomfortable at first. The time it takes to develop is different for everyone, but it can be as short as a few days (some are as strong as the same day!) and as long as a few months in some cases. In some cases, it takes a few days (some of them as long as the same day!), and in other cases it takes several months.

While an outside orgasm is ‘an electric feeling of pleasure’, an inside orgasm is ‘a feeling of pleasure that comes from deep inside the body’. Some people faint during inside orgasm. That’s how deep and strong the pleasure is. Some people go into a state of ecstasy as the pleasure rushes in one after another.

What is the G-spot? Medical explanation of location and role

If you want to cum for the outside orgasm you need a vibrator

If you want to get the outside orgasm, there is no doubt about it if you use a vibrator. The vibrator stimulates a wide area with the vibration of the motor, so it is easy to stimulate all around including the clitoris.

You don’t need any special technique to use it, and you can get pleasure from it just by hitting it. Compared to the G-spot, the clitoris is easier to find and can be stimulated with a finger, but if you use a vibrator, you can easily feel an orgasm.

The shortcut to orgasm in the clitoris is to be stimulated in a steady rhythm, and the vibrator is perfect for this because it vibrates in exactly the same rhythm. When you think “Does it feel good?

The trick is to continue to stimulate the vibrator when you feel “good,” without stopping the vibrator.

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Outside orgasm means clitoris climax, so I’ll choose vibe maybe!

How to use a vibrator for outside orgasm

So let’s get started and I’ll explain how to use a vibrator to OUTSIDE ORGASM!

Before you use the vibrator, get in the mood for women’s porn videos, cartoons, novels, situation fantasies, or anything else that will get you in the mood.

There’s a saying that ‘women cum with their brains’, but when a woman has an orgasm, the mental aspect of her orgasm has a lot to do with it. Although orgasm itself is felt by the brain, women are more likely to feel orgasm when they are truly relaxed and immersed in it.

It’s hard to get comfortable with a vibrator if you apply it to nothing at all, so make sure you get yourself sufficiently excited first. When you feel comfortable, do you feel a little wet? If you feel that you are getting a little wet, try touching the vaginal area over your underwear. It’s okay to touch it at a slow pace, as if you’re pushing yourself.

When you think, “I need a little stronger stimulation,” it’s time to use a vibrator! Try applying the vibrator slowly. As I told you before, the clitoris is a delicate organ with a lot of nerves concentrated in it. As I mentioned earlier, the clitoris is a delicate organ with many nerves concentrated in it.

If you think, “This feels good,” you should concentrate on it. When you feel “It’s not enough,” try to stimulate it intensively. You’ll feel something rising. Immerse yourself in the sensation as it comes up.

If you hesitate here, you won’t be able to feel the orgasm as you would like, so try to surrender to the pleasure. Raise your mood, caress your sexual area, stimulate your clitoris with a vibrator, and basically, if you do this, you will certainly be able to have an OUTSIDE orgasm.

[महिलाओं के लिए] शुरुआती लोगों के लिए हस्तमैथुन में वाइब्रेटर का उपयोग करना और इसे सही तरीके से कैसे उपयोग करना है

If you want to cum for inside orgasm should use a dildo

If you want to develop an inside orgasm, a dildo is the way to go. inside orgasm takes different time to develop for different people, so you need to be patient and take your time. You can also develop a G-spot with a vibrator, and you’ll feel an orgasm in a rather short amount of time with that one.

However, because of the quicker time to orgasm, the pleasure tends to be shallower for that amount of time. Also, it’s easier to feel an orgasm that’s close to the pleasure you feel during actual sex if you actually inside orgasm with a dildo. (The actual penis doesn’t vibrate or anything like that.)

So if you want to develop an inside orgasm to feel an orgasm in actual sex, I recommend the dildo, even more so if you want to develop an inside orgasm. A dildo is also useful for feeling orgasm in the portio, which I talked about a bit earlier.

STI Girl

I want to try to cum inside orgasm, so should choose dildos!!

How to do inside orgasm with a dildo

Next, I’m going to explain how to use a dildo for inside orgasm! Inside orgasm is based on development, unlike outside orgasm, so please try to stimulate it patiently. It will surely bring you new pleasures.

If you want to use a dildo for inside orgasm, you can prepare a lotion and a bath towel to put under your buttocks in addition to the dildo, so you don’t make a mess on the floor.

When you’re ready, you can increase your own sensitivity with porn videos, cartoons, and fantasies, just like the outside orgasm method. Dildos in particular are sex toys for insertion, so no matter how much lotion you use, it’s smoother to have enough vaginal secretions. Warming up in a bath or other place will help you relax and relax your body.

Once you’re sufficiently sensitive, you can start caressing your clitoris, nipples, and other sexual areas. Carefully explore where you feel comfortable as much as you can. Finding the areas that feel good to you will help you in the actual sex.

Once you’ve caressed it enough and it’s getting wet, put plenty of lotion on it and insert it slowly. At this time, you should warm up the lotion to about human skin in hot water or the microwave.

Please wait for a while without moving it. If you feel that the vagina has become accustomed to the shape of the dildo, try to insert slowly. When you feel that the vagina is getting used to the shape of the dildo, try to stroke slowly.

Try stroking with the dildo or attaching it to the floor or wall to have simulated sex, and find out what feels good for you. Gradually, you will find an area that you think might feel good. Then, just concentrate on stimulating it as you did with the outside orgasm.

Again, the time it takes to develop inside orgasm varies from person to person, so it’s important not to be in a hurry to develop it just because you can’t feel the orgasm.

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Why inside orgasm feels many times better than outside orgasm

Inside orgasm is many times more pleasurable than outside orgasm. This is because the inside orgasm can last for a dozen minutes or more if it’s long enough, whereas the outside orgasm is only for a moment.

During the aftermath, it is easy to feel a continuous orgasm, so you can also feel the so-called ecstasy. This inside orgasm is something that many women become so addicted to that once they can experience it, they become addicted to sex and masturbation.

Inside orgasm can also lead to mental fulfillment, as inside orgasm releases oxytocin and endorphins (hormones), which are euphoric substances (hormones) that help you feel more connected to your partner, such as during sex.

It fills you with a sense of happiness. There is no reason not to develop this INSIDE ORGASM, as anyone can feel it if they develop it.

What is multiple orgasm? Positions and methods for that!

Why Sextoys India recommends dildos as a first sex toy

Having told you the difference between outside orgasm and inside orgasm and how to develop them, I would like to tell you what we at SexToys INDIA think about first sex toys! Dildos. Here’s why.

  1. It makes no noise, so it’s safe to have a roommate.
  2. Durable and long-lasting because of its resistance to breakage
  3. Wide range of sizes

I will explain the reason for each in detail!

First masturbation with dildo, how to feel good with dildo

They are noiseless, so you don’t have to worry about having roommates

Many people are hesitant to purchase a sex toy because they have a family member, partner or other roommate. It’s not easy to use goods that make noise, especially if they make noise.

That’s where a noiseless dildo comes in. Goods that make noise will inevitably bother your roommates who live in the same house. Also, since most dildos are completely waterproof since no electrical parts are used, they are easy to use in the bathroom where privacy is easier to obtain.

STI Girl

When I live with my family, I’m worried about the sound of the vibrator.

Because they are hard to break, they last for a long time

Dildos, as we mentioned earlier, do not use electrical parts. Therefore, the goods themselves are unlikely to malfunction, so they can be used for a long period of time. Of course, the material itself that the dildo is made of can become damaged and break due to improper storage, but you can use it as much as you want as long as it keeps its shape. Once you buy one, you can use it many times, so it’s a pretty cost-effective sex toy.

STI Girl

The vibration of the motor is good, but if it breaks, it can’t be repaired …

Variety of sizes

Dildos come in a wide range of sizes. Therefore, it is possible to size up for new stimulation. However, just because you go up in size does not mean that you can no longer use your previous size. There may be times when you feel that you would like to use a different size of dildo. That’s when it comes into play, and it can be used indefinitely.

Sextoys India’s 3 best-selling dildos

It’s hard to know which dildo to choose, even though they are very cost effective and easy to use. That’s why the Sex Toys INDIA staff has picked out three of the most popular dildos that are selling well. If you’re looking for your first sex toy, you should definitely consider these three dildos.

XXX Indian Dick Man 6

Perfect for Indian women, the XXX Indian Dick Man 6 is modeled after the Indian man’s penis. The XXX Indian Dick Man 6 is made of high quality silicone and has a very realistic feel to it.

Even the veins of the penis have been realistically recreated, so if you’re looking for quality and a realistic sensation, this is the one for you. The overall length is 125mm, which is about the average size of Indian men’s penis. It is also perfect for your first sex toy in that it is not too big.

It does not have a suction cup, but can be placed on the floor or chair for use. It’s a simple, orthodox dildo that can be used for sex.

Super Pink Boy

The Super Pink Boy in clear pink is a dildo-style vibrator. Even if you don’t use the vibrator function, the Super Pink Boy is a great first sex toy for two reasons.

  1. It’s easy to develop a G-spot with its excellent warpiness
  2. It can be used as a vibrator as well as a dildo.

The best part is that this Super Pink Boy has the perfect amount of warping. The Super Pink Boy is the perfect fit for a woman’s vagina. Many women have a tendency to have an orgasm when inserting it backwards during sex, and the angle of the Super Pink Boy is exactly the same as when it is inserted backwards.

It also has a vibrator function, so you can use it as a vibrator as well. If you get tired of using it as a dildo, you can use it as a dildo-type vibrator.

CHOCOLATE LILY

There are many dildos that are made for reality, but this CHOCOLATE LILY is a representative of non-realistic dildos (i.e. dildos that are not sculpted realistically)! As the name implies, this product has a lovely coloration like a chocolate lily flower.

It is relatively slender, so beginners should be able to insert it smoothly. Although it is slender, the insertion part is 135mm, which is about the size of an average penis. Therefore, it is a product that can be used for a long time.

The hardness is in the soft category, so it is hard to feel the pain even if you insert it deep inside. The tip is a realistic reproduction of the glans, so don’t underestimate the non-realistic nature of the product. You can feel the pleasure of a realistically designed dildo.

It may be a bit pricey for a dildo that doesn’t have a vibrator function, but it is made of high quality silicone, which is used for medical devices, so people with allergies can use it with confidence.

It is made up of two layers, the core and the outer layer, and it is very similar to a real penis in that it has a solid core in a soft and sticky touch. The form is calculated and comfortable, and it’s perfect for your first sex toy. Some of the strongest people seem to use it as an interior decoration when they’re not using it as a sex toy.

Extras: sex toys for anal use!

The most popular sex toys for women are the ones for the vagina and nipples, but there are also dildos for the anus. For example, dildos are also anal sex toys, but anal dildos are slimmer than the ones for the vagina.

In this article, I would like to introduce the pleasure women feel in the anus and some sex toys to be used for anal use.

The pleasure women feel in the anus

Women can also feel pleasure in the anal area. When you think of feeling pleasure in the anus, many people think of the male prostate gland. (The prostate is an organ found only in men and can be stimulated through the anus. It functions as a sexual outlet when it is continually stimulated.) Men can feel strong orgasms in the anus, many times stronger than ejaculation, but women can also feel pleasure in the anus.

The number one reason women feel pleasure in the ass is “immorality”. Anal isn’t the place to insert anything, but you’ve inserted a sex toy or penis into it. It’s this feeling of doing something wrong that drives women to pleasure. In addition, the stimulation from the anus is transmitted to the vagina and the woman can feel the pleasure.

Anal is not designed to allow for insertion of anything from the beginning (it is an organ for excretion), so it needs to be stretched sufficiently before inserting a dildo. If you want more stimulation, you may try to develop the inside orgasm and outside orgasm.

Sex toys for anal

There are two types of sex toys for anal sex: “dilators” and “pleasure-seekers”. The anal organ is made up of the anal sphincter, and it doesn’t expand except when something is passing through it.

STI Girl

Anal is also very comfortable, but is there an anal toy for women?

It’s designed to close automatically when no object is passing through it. It’s natural because it would be very difficult if the anus didn’t return after defecating. That’s why a dilating sex toy is inserted into the anus to stop the anal sphincter from trying to return to its original position. A dilating sex toy can be an anal plug (butt plug) or an anal dildo.

Anal sex toys for getting pleasure are anal beads. You will enjoy the sensation of a bead inserted deep into your anus and coming out. The narrower the sensation of the beads, the stronger the stimulation. There are various sizes of beads, and you can choose the size you want.

Also, if you use a sex toy for anal, always use a lotion in conjunction with it. Anal is not a vaginal organ that produces a lot of secretions like the vagina, so if you don’t use lotion, it’s not only painful, but can lead to unexpected injuries.

Summary

Dildos and vibrators are both very attractive sex toys that are easy to get pleasure from. Beginners often start with a vibrator because it is easier to get pleasure from outside orgasm. But we at SexToys INDIA want you to feel deep and strong pleasure from your heart. And we want you to master the inside orgasm and have real sex with it.

It’s the first sex toy you’ll ever use, so why not stick to inside orgasm? If you have any questions about sex toys, you can always contact us through the chat on this site.

We know that your first sex toy can be a lot of trouble, and we want to make sure you’re comfortable with your purchase. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact us. Even if it’s about shipping or anything else, we’re happy to help. We hope that everyone will be happy with our sex toy suggestions.

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Staff of SEX Toys India, which sells sex toys made in India by Indians for Indians. I've been involved in sex toys for over 5 years, and I blog about knowledge about sex toys and sex techniques.

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