[For women] Easy way to find G-spots with your hands and fingers

The G-spot is a sexual area in a woman’s vagina, and if you can find and develop it, you can have a great orgasm during sex and masturbation.

However, finding this G-spot can be a bit tricky. In this article, we’re going to specialize in finding the G-spot and tell you how to easily find it with just your hands and fingers. We also took a deep dive into the reasons why it’s not easy to find and develop the G-spot when you’re successfully finding and developing it.

The easy way to find a G-spot is explained in 3 steps as follows.

  • Lie on your back and spread your legs
  • Insert the belly of your middle finger upward to about the second joint
  • Explore the upper side of the vagina with the belly of your middle finger

You can jump to here to know details Easy 3 steps! How to find your own G-spot.

If you want to find the G-spot yourself, or if you want to develop the G-spot to make sex with your partner even better, please stay with us until the end.


What is the G-spot?

The G-spot is a sexual area on the upper side of the vaginal wall that is 3-5 cm inside a woman’s vagina. Many people think that the G-spot is a female sexual zone, but it is difficult to know if it exists or not. But the truth is that the G-spot is a medically recognized place.

The G-spot is medically referred to as the urethral spongiosa. An area called the skein line has also been found in part of the G-spot.

The skein line is the organ equivalent of the prostate gland, and when stimulated, it is said to cause an orgasm as strong as a male dry orgasm. (A dry orgasm is an orgasm that does not involve ejaculation. It is quite a strong pleasure.) In some cases, an orgasm at the G-spot can cause you to squirt. (A squirt is a fluid similar to a woman’s urine.)

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However, while the G-spot is a sexual zone, stimulating it does not mean that you will feel pleasure from the start. Consistent stimulation and proper development of the G-spot can lead to great orgasms, and since the G-spot is well known as a female sex zone, many men may try to get their partners to have orgasms in the G-spot.

However, the truth is that if you haven’t developed it, it doesn’t feel good at all to be stimulated.

STI Boy

So if you want to stimulate your partner’s G-spot, you’ve got to develop it!

Dr. sextoy

Right! By the way, as an aside, the G in G-spot comes from Ernst Grafenberg, the German obstetrician and gynecologist who discovered the G-spot.

Before Grafenberg discovered the G-spot, it was thought that a woman’s vagina did not feel anything. So the paper on the G-spot was published in 1950, only 70 years or so after the discovery of the G-spot.

What exactly are the benefits of finding the G-spot if it has been less than 100 years since it was discovered?

Easy 3 steps! How to find your own G-spot

The G-spot is easy to find in three easy steps! It’s not unique and can’t be quite difficult to find, but please be patient and try to find it.

Dr.sextoy

Once you have successfully found the G-spot, you can try to develop it! The development process is basically all about “finding and stimulating what makes you feel good”. I’ve also written an article that explains in more detail how to develop a G-spot, check it out!
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The ↑G-spot development is basically using a right vibrator.

The article above explains how to use a vibrator to feel an orgasm. Try to find the spot where you feel your orgasm by consciously going to hit the G-spot with the Dildos or Vibrators.

1. Lie on your back and spread your legs

First, lie on your back and spread your legs about shoulder-width apart. You can look for it on your face, but I recommend lying on your back as it’s easier to find the G-spot. It’s a good idea to feel your orgasm on your clitoris once you’re fully relaxed to start, if possible.

2. Insert the belly of your middle finger upward to about the second joint

Once you lie on your back and spread your legs, try to insert your middle finger upward to about the second joint. At this point, you should put some lotion on your finger. If you make it slippery with the lotion, the insertion of the finger will be smooth. By the way, be sure to choose a lotion for women.

There is actually more than one type of lotion, and some of them are more prone to irritation when used in a woman’s vagina. Choosing a woman’s lotion is a safe bet.

STI Girl

I didn’t know there were so many different types of lotions!

3. Explore the upper side of the vagina with the belly of your middle finger

After inserting your finger to about the second joint, let’s explore the upper wall of the vagina with your finger. The G-spot is the part that becomes puffy as you touch it. It is said that it is just an extension of the clitoris, so you can use that as a guide to find it. Try stimulating it in various patterns, such as lightly tapping it with a thump, or applying pressure with a goofy finger.

Dr.sextoy

Now, did you find a spot that you think is the G-spot? The method of development is basically just to repeat these three items, so don’t think too hard about it and keep going.
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The characteristics of the G-spot

Before I tell you how to find the G-spot, you need to know what makes the G-spot unique. Actually, the G-spot does not have any specific characteristics. We mentioned earlier that it’s ‘a little rough to the touch’, but some people don’t.

So how can you tell if they are? That’s because while you’re stimulating the G-spot, you can’t tell if it’s here or not. If you feel that you are stimulating the G-spot, try stimulating it with a thump or gently stroking it with your finger. The G-spot is the place where you will feel like you have to pee and feel like you have to pee.

The G-spot doesn’t refer to a certain point, but rather what we call the area around it. Therefore, the location can vary a little bit from person to person. Of course it is important to gather information by taking in people’s opinions and reading technical books, but the most important thing is the process of actually touching it yourself to see for yourself.

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The benefits of finding the G-spot yourself

The three main benefits of finding your G-spot on your own are

  • You’ll be more likely to have an orgasm when you have sex with your partner.
  • It makes it easier for men to feel orgasms as well as for women.
  • You can pursue even deeper pleasure with self-pleasure.

STI Girl

Why does finding your own G-spot make it easier to have an orgasm during sex with your partner?

Dr.sextoy

Because if you can locate the G-spot yourself, it’s easier to tell your partner about it and pinpoint it for stimulation.

It’s very difficult for your partner to stimulate areas that are hard for you to identify, so it’s very kind if you can tell them in advance. You won’t get yucky about being stimulated in a completely different area either.

STI Girl

I understand why it’s easier to feel on the female side! But why does it make it easier to feel orgasms on the male side as well as the female side?

Dr.sextoy

When a woman has an orgasm, there is also movement in the vagina. Whether it’s a tightening sensation inside the vagina or a rippling sensation, these things give a man a great deal of pleasure. This makes it easier for the man to have an orgasm as well.

Feeling a strong orgasm in the G-spot can also help you to improve yourself. Women’s masturbation is called self-pleasure these days, and pursuing even deeper pleasure with self-pleasure can improve the body’s immunity and have beauty benefits, among many other benefits for women.

Also, when you can pursue your own G-spot orgasms, you can incorporate a good cycle of being able to apply it to the actual sex, which makes you like sex even more.

In order to have an orgasm in the G-spot, you need to develop

The orgasms you feel in the G-spot go far beyond the orgasms you feel in the clitoris, but you need to develop the ability to feel orgasms in the G-spot. And it is estimated that a whopping 40% of women are able to get pleasure from the G-spot, less than half of all women.

While the numbers change from time to time, it’s unlikely to make a big difference. The G-spot varies from person to person in terms of how you feel pleasure, but if finding and developing it can put you on the 40% side, wouldn’t you want to experience it?It’s not unique and can be quite difficult to find, but please be patient and try to find it.

Next, we’re going to show you how to find your G-spot easily.

Why does it take so long to develop a G-spot?

If you find your G-spot, try to develop it.

STI Girl

I’m sure I’m stimulating the G-spot precisely, but for some reason it’s taking longer…

If this is the case, the following four things may be the cause.

  • Mental effects
  • I’m not feeling well
  • The vagina is not sufficiently wet
  • I can’t get used to the sensation of cumming in the G-spot

Let’s take a closer look at each of these causes!

Mental aspects are affected (impatience)

As the saying goes, “Women feel orgasms in their brains,” so much so that the mental aspect of orgasm is affected. If you can’t develop your G-spot as much as you’d like, or if your partner is putting pressure on you to orgasm, you won’t be able to feel your orgasm as much as you’d like.

STI Girl

My partner wants to make me cum, so I really don’t know what it feels like to have an orgasm at all if I’m acting it out every time.

If you find it hard to feel an orgasm, you need to get rid of the haze in your mind first. If you’re having problems like the woman above, you need to talk to your partner about orgasms once. The mental part is directly related to the orgasm, so even the slightest rut needs to be resolved.

I’m not feeling well

If you’re not feeling well and you’re trying to develop it, you won’t be able to feel your orgasm as well as you’d like. If you feel a little unwell, take a break from developing your G-spot and focus on getting your body back in shape. You don’t have to stimulate it every day in a row, but you can take some days off. Your previous development will not be in vain, so try to recover your strength.

The vagina is not wet enough

It is necessary to caress the vaginal area and clitoris as a prerequisite for G-spot development and to increase sensitivity sufficiently. If the sensitivity in the vagina is increased, the vagina will naturally become wet, so the insertion will be smooth.

However, feeling is not the same as getting wet, and the amount of a woman’s love juice varies depending on her physical condition. However, the amount of a woman’s love juice is not limited to this. If you are not wet, it means that the sensitivity inside the vagina has not increased enough to begin with, so try caressing your vagina until it is sufficiently wet and then try to develop.

Not accustomed to the sensation of cumming in the G-spot

Many people get the sensation of needing to pee when the G-spot is stimulated, but there is a pattern of people who can’t get used to this sensation and can’t quite get used to having an orgasm…

STI Girl

When I’m stimulating my G-spot, I can’t help but want to pee, and I can’t let the sensation bother me so much that I can’t lose myself in the pleasure.

As you can see, you may feel the sensation that you are about to pee as you stimulate your G-spot. By continuing to stimulate the G-spot with that sensation, “squirting” occurs, but some people feel uncomfortable about continuing to stimulate while their pee is about to leak.

In the unlikely event that you do leak, you will worry about cleaning up afterwards and it will be difficult to stimulate sufficiently. But if you don’t get over this sensation, it will be difficult to feel the pleasure of the G-spot.

In that case, you can stimulate the G-spot in a place where it doesn’t matter if it gets wet, such as the bathroom. Or you can put a large pet sheet or something similar on the bed or floor so that it’s easy to clean up after yourself in case of a leak. That way, you’ll be able to let yourself feel the pleasure that comes rushing in without having to worry about cleaning up afterwards.

When looking for the G-spot

When looking for the G-spot, keep the following two things in mind

  • Cut your nails short and keep your hands clean
  • Don’t panic if you can’t find the G-spot

Dr.sextoy

The G-spot is a hard place to find, so it’s paramount not to be in a hurry!

I will explain each of the above two points in detail.

Cut nails short and keep hands clean

When looking for the G-spot, cut your hand nails short, wash them carefully, and keep them clean. Because hands and nails contain a surprising amount of bacteria, if you damage your vagina with your fingernails or other nails, bacteria can enter through them and cause unexpected irritation. Therefore, be sure to cut your nails short and keep them clean.

By the way, if you have nail art and can’t cut your nails short, we recommend using a sex toy. Since more and more people are doing their nails these days, many women are probably growing their nails longer. If this is the case, use a vibrator or other device dedicated to G-spot stimulation.

Using a special G-spot vibrator will allow you to find the G-spot without worrying about your nails growing out. One caveat: It’s best to turn the vibration down when you’re looking for the G-spot. If you make the stimulation stronger from the start, it will be hard to tell which place you are feeling the pleasure.

If you can’t find the G-spot, don’t be in a hurry

As we’ve told you often before, it’s important not to be in a hurry to find the G-spot if you can’t find it. The clitoris is located in a position where it is easy for any woman to find, but the G-spot is very hard to find, so it’s no surprise that it’s hard to find. The level of difficulty can finally be seen after patient stimulation, so try to find it steadily and without rushing.

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Also, in some cases, there are some people who can’t feel an orgasm at the G-spot. If you really can’t feel orgasms easily, I recommend pursuing orgasms in other ways, such as mastering the pleasure of the clitoris or trying to target the portio.

STI Girl

It’s not all about the pleasure of the G-spot, though!

Summarize: develop your own G-spot and feel the pleasure of cumming inside

How did you like it? Many of you may have found it surprisingly easy to find your own G-spot. The sensation you can get from stimulating the G-spot is quite unique, so many people may not get used to it at first. However, if you keep at it, the day will come soon when you will be able to feel an orgasm in your G-spot!

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STI staff

Staff of SEX Toys India, which sells sex toys made in India by Indians for Indians. I've been involved in sex toys for over 5 years, and I blog about knowledge about sex toys and sex techniques.

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