What do you think what takes a woman satisfy with sex? The answer to this question will vary from person to person, but the fact is that foreplay before inserting the penis is very important.
Particularly effective is fingering, and if you improve your fingering technique, you can greatly increase a woman’s expectations and satisfaction with sex.
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However, there are many men who are fingering the wrong way due to pornography and other factors.
So, in this article, we’re going to show you in detail how to do a good fingering and tips on how to make a woman feel good about herself. If you read to the end of this article, you will understand all the techniques needed for fingering.
What kind of play is fingering?
Fingering is a form of foreplay and refers to the use of hands and fingers to stimulate the female genitalia. Direct contact with the sexual organs can bring great pleasure to a woman.
If a woman is able to do good fingering, her arousal level will increase and she will be able to have more pleasurable sex. In addition, it can promote the development of sexual zones, which can greatly increase a woman’s sensitivity.
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However, simply moving a finger in and out or moving it hard does not make a woman feel good at all. Not only that, but they may be in pain. Make sure you are aware of both the technique and the precautions you need to take in order to practice pleasant fingering.
Where are the sexual zones to be stimulated by fingering?
It doesn’t matter how much you improve your technique if you don’t know the location and characteristics of the sexual zones. First of all, it is important to remember the location and characteristics of the sexual zones to be stimulated by Fingering.
- Clitoris
- G-spot
- Portio
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We’ve summarized the locations and characteristics of each of these below, with a reference article to help you make sure you’re aware of them and remember them. Maybe it will lead you to realize that you have been fingering wrong in the past.
Clitoris
The clitoris is a small protrusion attached to the entrance of the vagina. The clitoris is an organ dedicated to sexual arousal and is a very sensitive part of the body, corresponding to the glans in men. The clitoris contains many nerves, and when it feels aroused, it rises in the same way as the penis.
The orgasm that comes from stimulating the clitoris is called external orgasm or cum and is characterized by a strong, instantaneous sensation of pleasure, just like a man’s ejaculation.
The shape of the clitoris varies slightly from person to person and may be covered with skin. It’s a small and difficult area to detect, so it’s best to check with your woman as you touch it.
For more information about the clitoris, click here.
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G-spot
The G-spot is the second most famous female sexual area after the clitoris. It is a rough area on the upper side of the vagina, 3-5 cm away from the entrance of the vagina. It is called medium cum, as opposed to external cum from the clitoris, which can be obtained from the G-spot.
Although it is a famous sexual area, the G-spot is the part of the body that needs to be stimulated by sex and masturbation in order to get pleasure from it. If you stimulate the G-spot and the response is weak, you can gradually get pleasure from it by taking your time.
For more information about the G-spot, click here.
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Portio
Portio refers to the area of the uterus at the back of the vagina, at the very back of the vagina. This Portio is less well-known than the clitoris and G-spot, but it is said to be the sexual area where women get the most pleasure, and while the Portio is difficult to find because it’s located at the back of the vagina, if you put your middle finger deep into it, you should be able to find a protrusion with a different texture.
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The Portio is characterized by very strong pleasure, but like the G-spot, it takes a little time to get pleasure from it because it requires repeated stimulation; as you get pleasure from the Portio, the pleasure of sex also rises, so stimulate and develop it patiently.
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Tips for Pleasant FINGERING
So here’s the main point. Based on the locations and characteristics of the sexual zones mentioned above, here are some point-by-point tips on how to give a pleasant fingering. Let’s look back on your own fingering and see what you’ve done so far.
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- Get ready for it by caressing first
- You must be very sensitive to the sexual areas
- Slowly piston your fingers
- Vary the angle of the finger’s insertion
- Touching a woman while checking her reaction
- Don’t hurry it, just move it up
- Stimulate other sexually active zones together
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Monotonous or forceful focusing is never allowed. The trick is to prepare slowly and carefully, and to vary the stimulus slowly and carefully. Each point is summarized in detail below.
Get ready by caressing first
The most important thing to do before fingering a woman is to wet the vagina well. Main reason why women feel pain from fingering is it because they are stimulating the vagina before it sufficiently get wet.
A woman’s sexual arousal gradual increase, unlike that of a man. If you don’t understand this, you will fall into these mistakes.
Therefore, before fingering, it is necessary to go through the process of gently caressing other parts of the body other than the aforementioned sexual zones to enhance the mood. Once you are sure that the vagina is sufficiently wet, you should gradually stimulate the sexual zones. If a woman is physically difficult to wet, use Sex Lubricant or saliva to stimulate carefully.
Handle the sex zones delicately
As mentioned above, women’s sexual organs are very sensitive. Many women feel pain if you suddenly touch them without preparation, and intense fingering like in pornographic videos is not a good idea. Remember, just as it hurts when you grip and move your penis as hard as you can, the pleasure can be painful if you make a mistake. Some women are so cautious that they put up with the pain.
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This will make them feel uncomfortable and fearful about FINGERING, so be careful. Once you’re ready with caresses, as mentioned above, the rule of thumb is to start with weak stimulation, such as light touch. Always try to use gentle stimulation, as some women may be too cautious to tolerate the pain.
Gently piston your fingers
Once you are sure that the woman’s vagina is wet, slowly insert one finger into the vagina. It is recommended that you use your dominant index or middle finger to insert it, as you need to make delicate movements. However, be aware that just because your vagina is wet doesn’t mean you can’t stimulate it vigorously.
Insert your finger slowly and, if there is no resistance, just move it in and out and see how the woman responds. If you feel the woman’s arousal increasing, it is recommended to change it up by using two fingers.
Variate the angle at which you insert your fingers
When you put your finger in the vagina to stimulate it, are you stimulating it at the same angle the whole time? As mentioned above, the G-spot is located on the upper side of the vagina and the Portio is the sex zone at the back of the vagina. This means that if you are moving your fingers in and out at the same angle, you may not be able to stimulate these sexual zones at all and the pleasure may be reduced by half.
Try varying the angle of your fingers in and out slightly and see how your woman responds. However, keep in mind that rotating a finger in the vagina can cause bleeding in women who are sensitive to stimulation, so be sure to stimulate gently.
Touching a woman while checking her reaction
The sensitivity of the aforementioned female sexual organs varies from person to person, as the intensity of pleasure varies depending on how well they are developed. If they aren’t developed, not only it is not pleasurable, but they may be painful as well. It’s effective to check the woman’s reaction carefully and touch her while talking to her to see if it hurts, etc.
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This is a win-win situation because men can understand how women feel and women can feel safe. Never stimulate them by assuming that they should be comfortable.
Hurry without moving
When we think of fingering, we tend to think of intense stimulation due to the influence of pornographic videos. But again, intense pain can be nothing but pain for a woman. On the contrary, the technique of not daring to move after inserting a finger and hurrying is very effective. The technique is very effective, because it makes the woman feel depleted and increases the level of arousal.
As the level of arousal increases, so does the sensitivity, which can increase the pleasure of fingering. It can be difficult for a man to sit still and hold back in a state of heightened arousal, but I encourage you to try impatience to satisfy your woman.
Stimulate other sexual zones together
If you are a woman with some sexual development, stimulating multiple sexual zones together can be very effective. In addition to the clitoris, G-spot and Portio mentioned above, try stimulating the nipples and neck together. If you combine the above methods to increase sensitivity, you should be able to double your pleasure.
Of course, it’s important to watch your woman’s reaction to the stimulation, and be careful not to overstimulate, as it requires more technique than concentrating on one area.
What are the most effective sex toys to make you feel good in fingering?
Although fingering is a very effective form of foreplay, it has the disadvantage of making your hands tired if you continue to do it for a long time. There are four types of sex toys that can be used to stimulate the sexually sensitive areas with fingering.
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The sex toys can be used to further enhance a woman’s satisfaction with the sex toys as she refines her fucking technique. The features and uses of each are described in detail below.
Sex Lubricant
Sex Lubricant is a highly viscous liquid used to enhance masturbation and sex. It is characterized by its slippery texture that can give a unique pleasure feeling. It has the effect of increasing the stimulation of caresses, so it can give strong pleasure without having to make any changes in the way of fingering.
It also reduces the pain of caressing, so it works well with fingering for both pleasure and safety.
Egg Vibrator
Egg Vibrator is a sex toy that provides stimulation through vibration. As the name suggests, it is egg-shaped and small in size. However, the vibrations are powerful and can be used in a wide range of ways, such as against the clitoris or inserted into the vagina to stimulate the G-spot.
Because of its small size, it is easily accepted by women who are new to sex toys. The price is also relatively affordable and easy to use, but if you want to use it by inserting it into the vagina, you may want to choose the type with a cord.
Vibrators
The vibrator is a stick-type sex toy and is just about the same size as an erect penis. It is the most popular sex toy that gives you pleasure with various stimuli such as swinging, vibrating and piston.
It is the only sex toy that can stimulate the Portio among the sex toys featured in this article. Some women are resistant to inserting it because of its large size. It is recommended to use Sex Lubricant in conjunction with it to avoid pain when using it.
Magic Wand Vibrators
An magic wand vibrator or massager is a sex toy, similar to a vibrator, that is stimulated by vibration. The large head vibrates and can give powerful stimulation. The intensity of the vibration is the most powerful of all the sex toys introduced here. Since it cannot be inserted into the vagina, it is mainly effective in stimulating the clitoris and nipples.
However, some women may feel pain from its powerful vibrations, so be careful how you use it. It is recommended that the vibration should be used at a low to gradually increasing rate, with a light touch.
Care to make you feel good about your fingering
As introduced, there are many points to make a woman feel good about fingering, and sex toys can be used effectively. However, there are many precautions to be taken because it is a sensitive area. The following are some of the most common mistakes men tend to make in fingering
- Not stimulating an unpainted vagina
- Don’t suddenly insert multiple fingers
- No forceful stimulation
- Do not rotate your finger in the vagina
- No stimulation of undeveloped sexual areas
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Do you have any idea what you’re talking about? A woman’s sexual arousal level will gradually increase. If you inflict pain in the middle of your fingering, the excitement will quickly cool down. To prevent this from happening, watch your woman’s reaction and make sure you are not fingering her incorrectly.
Other precautions are detailed in the following article.
How to touch to make a woman who is not good at fingering feel
Summary
If you can make a woman feel good about herself through fingering, you can increase her satisfaction with sex. However, if you cause her pain by rough fingering, it will ruin all the pleasure.
Make sure you know where your sexual zones are located and try not to use forceful fingering. The trick is to pay attention to your woman’s reaction and find out where they feel good. Make good use of the sex toys I’ve introduced to you, and get your woman hooked up with your fingering.
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