Use sex toys in sex! How to use it and five recommended products

Sex toys can be used for sex as well as masturbation. By using sex toys for sex, it is possible to prevent a rut and develop new sexual areas.

In this article, we’re going to show you the specific ways to use and recommend sex toys for women who want to ‘use sex toys for sex’!

I’m in a sex rut with my partner
I want my partner to feel more comfortable than ever before!
I want to explore my partner’s new sexual zones and proclivities…

If you have those requests and concerns, please check out the end of the article. Also, if you are a man who wants to use sex toys for sex as well as women, please stay with us.

Sex toys = not for masturbation

Are you under the impression that a sex toy is something to be used in masturbation? It is true that sex toys provide a level of satisfaction that cannot be achieved with your own hands when you use them for masturbation.

But sex toys are also very suitable for use in sex. It make your partner’s caressing more fulfilling and stimulating, and they can prevent you from getting into a sex rut.

The benefits of using sex toys for sex

The two main benefits of using sex toys for sex are!

It makes sex feel fresh
Increases the pleasure you get from sex

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Let’s explain each in detail.

Fresh sex

Using a sex toy for sex can make your usual sex more fresh. The introduction of sex toys can also help you become aware of new sexual habits, and you can meet a new side of yourself that neither you nor your partner knew about before. This changes the usual flow of sex, and it’s like a new atmosphere.

Humans instinctively have a hard time staying aroused to the same person. This is no longer an option for us as living beings, because we would not be able to develop to this point if we kept lusting after the same person. However, it is believed that adding new essences to your body on a regular basis can bring about new arousal and help you get out of a rut.

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In general, three years is a good time to continue lusting after the same partner, depending on the conditions. They say that’s the limit. You can extend it again by using a sex toy.

Increased pleasure

Sex toys are capable of performing movements that are impossible for a human being to perform, and therefore they can provide stronger pleasure than caresses performed by fingers or hands.

Therefore, it is important to note that in some cases, if you use it too much, you will only be able to feel orgasms with a sex toy. It might be a good idea to decide how to use the sex toy during sex, but always finish with your partner’s genitals… and so on.

Types of sex toys you can use during sex

Among the many sex toys, the following are the most common sex toys that can be used for sex

I won’t go into the details of how to use them, but this is one of the most common sex toys used by couples for sex. Do you feel there are more types of sex toys than you think?

Dr. sextoy

There are plenty more than this, depending on how you use it. You can use it as a couple, but it’s a good idea to get a handle on this area as an introduction to sex toys to use for sex first.

How to use sex toys in sex

So, next, we’ll explain how to use sex toys for sex! I have picked out the sex toys that are suitable for each situation, so please take a look at them. I’ve divided it into foreplay, penetration and situation play.

Used in foreplay

First of all, I’ll show you how to use sex toys in foreplay. ‘Sex toys in foreplay? Why?

but actually, using sex toys in foreplay is quite effective. You may find that you get tired of using too much force during the foreplay phase, and you may not feel comfortable. But if you introduce a sex toy, you can avoid that and concentrate on the penetration.

For both men and women! Vibrators

Although vibrators are strongly associated with being used for female masturbation, they are actually a good sex toy for both men and women. Women can use it for clitoral and nipple stimulation, and men can use it on the glans.

The tactile sensations of the clitoris and glans are similar, so the stimulation of the vibrator can give you a sense of pleasure. It is recommended that lovers take turns to enjoy the stimulation of the vibrator. It’s also very stimulating to have more than one vibrator and manipulate each other.

Most vibrators are inexpensive and easy to find, so it’s a very low hurdle to get started with sex toys. Therefore, even partners who are not comfortable with sex toys can easily use them.

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Used for insertion

The next step is to introduce a sex toy that can be used during insertion. It is possible to use a sex toy while inserting a penis and to make the sex more pleasant and to make the sex exciting. Sex toys that can be used at the time of insertion are roughly the following four!

Sex Lubricants(Lotion)
Cock ring
Condoms
Strap on(Harness) Dildos

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Check out the detailed usage of each!

Lotion for the relief of painful intercourse

Lotions that can be used to relieve intercourse pain are the leading sex toys that can be used during penetration. Intercourse pains can make sex very exciting, so if a woman complains of pain during penetration, it is essential.

Even if you don’t complain of pain, lotion can also improve the slipperiness and increase the sensitivity during sex. The materials used in lotions can be divided into three main types. They are sodium polyacrylate, glycerin and oil.

Sodium polyacrylate is the most famous and cheapest material used to make lotions, but sodium polyacrylate has such strong water-holding power that it is also used in sanitary products and diapers. Therefore, if it is inserted into the vagina or into the anus, it may absorb the water inside and make the vagina excessively dry. Therefore, it is better to choose a lotion that is mainly glycerin for insertion.

STI Boy

Can I use a glycerin-based lotion for anal as well?

For anal insertion, I recommend using oil-based lotions rather than glycerin-based lotions. Glycerin can be absorbed through the rectum and can cause an upset stomach. So use a lotion that has a long lasting viscosity and won’t upset your stomach.

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Cock ring for increased penis endurance</h4

A cock ring is also recommended if you have a problem with your penis problem during insertion or if you want to increase the size of your penis.

A cock ring is a sex toy that is sometimes used to treat ED, and by attaching it to the penis and making it congested, you can maintain an erection for a longer period of time than usual and delay your ejaculation so that you can enjoy penetration for a longer period of time than usual.

Some cock rings have a vibrator at the attachment point so that the clitoris can be stimulated just as it is inserted into the vagina. These types of cock rings are highly recommended if a woman likes clitoral orgasms or has difficulty having an inside orgasm. You can use a vibrator to stimulate the clitoris while inserting it, which makes it easier to have an inside orgasm.

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STI Boy

My girlfriend couldn’t get an inside orgasm. I used a cock ring with vibrator and now she can do inside orgasm!

Essential! Condoms

Condoms are another sex toy used in sex, which are essential for avoiding unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases. Aside from its purpose as a condom, you can use it in a variety of ways if you choose the right kind.

If you choose a condom with a flavoured, you can enjoy a different sensation and oral sex will be easier with it. If you choose a condom with a thermal effect, you will feel much warmer while wearing it, and it will give you a different impression.

The condoms that are designed to prevent premature ejaculation are also recommended for men with premature ejaculation. There is a small amount of anesthesia in the condom’s attachment area (naturally, the amount does not affect the human body), and it will stick to the penis when the condom is attached to the penis and dull the sensation. The penis that is slightly dulled is less sensitive than usual, so you can enjoy penetration for a long time.

STI Girl

I didn’t know condoms could help prevent premature ejaculation.

Furthermore, if you choose a condom with warts or folds, you can stimulate the woman’s vagina further while inserting it. There are many different types of condoms available, so it is fun to choose the one that best suits your situation.

Strap on(Harness) Dildos if you want to attack a man from a woman.

If you want to attack a man being a women, try the Strap on(Harness) Dildos, a sex toy wNot only can it be worn by men with erectile dysfunction and other penis insecuritiesith a dildo attached to a harness worn around the waist, which was mainly used for lesbian sex. However, they can be used between straight couples as well! Not only can it be worn by men with erectile dysfunction and other penis insecurities, but women can also wear the Strap on Dildos and insert them into men.

If you want to insert Strap on Dildos into a man, you will have to insert it into the anus. The male anus in particular has a dry orgasm, the prostate gland, which is an organ that allows a man to feel powerful orgasms without ejaculation, so it is possible for a woman to bring a man to a dry orgasm if it is well developed.

Dr. sextoy

The prostate is called the male G-spot, and you can feel it in such a prostate. Orgasms are quite powerful. It’s said that many people become addicted to it.

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It is also said that dry orgasms felt in the prostate gland do not have a post-cum clarity, so you can feel orgasms as many times as you like.

Used in Situational Play

Situation play is a form of play where you imagine a particular situation and pretend to be it. It’s a very exciting way to enjoy sex because you can enjoy a different flow of sex, because you get to be a part of it from the bottom of your heart, and you get to enjoy it in a fresh way.

The following are some of the most popular types of situation play.

Hustle play
Costume Play

STI Girl

Playing in a hurry is… sort of. I know, but what do you do exactly?

STI Boy

What is costume play?

Let’s take a closer look at each one!

BDSM

BDSM is an acronym for B (bondage), D (discipline) and SM (sadism & masochism), and play with these elements is called BDSM play. If you’re going to use it for sex, this BDSM product is actually highly recommended. It may be difficult to get into some parts of the game for those who are not familiar with it, but it can be quite effective, especially in preventing sex rutting.

When you hear the word BDSM, you might think of tying your partner up with a rope, whipping him or her, or dropping a candle wax on his or her body.

In fact, there are some of these painful BDSM plays, but the simpler ones, such as handcuffs, blindfolds, and tickling, are also forms of BDSM. Painful and extreme play can be difficult to accept, but if it’s as simple as a blindfold, handcuffs, or tickling, your partner should be able to accept it.

When you deprive your partner from one of the five senses with a blindfold or handcuffs, he or she will be more sensitive to regaining the rest of the senses that were deprived. This makes you more sensitive than usual to caresses.

When you’ve been together long enough to have sex to some extent, doesn’t the general flow of sex become fixed?

Then you start to imagine that the next time you have sex, Sex is no fun if you can’t imagine the flow, so try using a blindfold or handcuffs and then changing the order of caresses or doing something different.

STI Boy

I’m getting tired of the sex if the same flow continues.

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Hasty Play

In simple terms, impatient play is ‘impatient stimulation to the sexual area that the other person may want during play to increase their desire and sensitivity. It’s no fun if you want everything and get it easily. The more you rush it, the more pleasure you get.

The way to play hurriedly is simple. You just don’t have to do the caresses and penetration that he wants. When he is about to have an orgasm, stop caressing and make him think “I want you to do it more”. It’s a way to make them think ‘I want more!

However, it’s difficult to decide how much to rush, and if you rush too much, your partner may become numb.

Make sure to play around with the situation to see how much of a rush is okay for the toner. Many people will feel a little sorry for you if they crave caresses and penetration but can’t because they’re impatient. Therefore, it is important to be gentle with your partner when you are actually caressing or penetrating him/her so that he/she can feel your affection and respond in the way he/she wants.

STI Girl

I don’t like it when you are too impatient!

The recommended sex toy for the sexual play is a vibrator. You can use the vibrator to stimulate your partner’s sexually active zone and when you feel your orgasm cuming, you can let go in a flash.

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Also, a chastity belt is a good idea. It goes into BDSM in the category, but it’s perfect for limiting erections and ejaculation. Some people may find it hard to accept because it looks so authentic. In those cases, I recommend using a partial and simple type of chastity belt instead of the type that is worn over the entire waist.

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Costume Play

Costume play is a type of situation play in which the player wears a appropriate costume for the situation. Popular situations include police and prisoner, nurse and doctor, patient, or teacher and student. By dressing up in costumes that match the situation, you can get more involved in the role.

This costume play is highly recommended, especially for couples who have been together for a long time. In most cases, you will only have sex with your lover during your relationship, but by playing in a costume, your lover will look and feel different, and you will feel like a different person. Seeing your partner as a different person can bring back the excitement you had in the beginning of your relationship, and it can also be a chance to develop new sexual organs.

Dr. sextoy

It’s hard to release your own desires, especially when your sex partner is your lover. There are many people who say they don’t have it. Costume play is a great way to discover new sexual habits and develop new sexuality!

It’s great to see a ‘side of you that you don’t know’ in your partner.

When to use sex toys for sex

Now that you’ve checked out the specific ways to use sex toys in sex, it’s time to check out the next step in the process of using sex toys in sex! There are three things you need to check to ensure that you and your partner have a smooth sex toy experience

Don’t do anything that your partner doesn’t want to do
Use a sex toy that is the right size
Keep sex toys clean.

The most important thing to remember when using sex toys for sex is to not do anything that your partner doesn’t want to do. Sex is a partner-driven thing.

Therefore, neither you nor your partner can have pleasurable sex if you only impose your preferences on them. Even if it is your preference, if your partner does not like it, you should stop using sex toys or use a different one.

It is recommended that you and your partner choose a sex toy together so that you can get to know your partner’s preferences.

It’s also important to use a sex toy that is the right size for both you and your partner. For example, a strap-on dildo is inserted into your partner’s anus, so you need to decide on the size of it according to the degree of anal development.

Condoms are also dangerous because if the size of the penis is not right, you may not be able to get a reliable contraceptive effect. Check the size of the sex toy you need to wear in advance.

Finally, it is important to always clean sex toys after use and keep them clean. This is true even when it is not used for sex, but sex toys that come in contact with mucous membranes and body fluids are very prone to the growth of germs.

Therefore, if you leave them in contact with mucous membranes and bodily fluids, they will quickly become unclean. The next time you use a sex toy in an unclean condition, it can cause bacteria to enter through the minute wounds on the genitals and cause inflammation. Be sure to keep it clean after each use.

Summary

For women who want to use sex toys for sex, we have introduced STI’s recommended sex toys for use in sex and specific instructions on how to use them.

Sex toys can provide good stimulation when used properly and can help you get out of a sex rut and develop new sexual habits and sexuality. For a long and amicable relationship with your partner, try to incorporate sex toys for a fresh, newer sex experience than usual.

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