For those of you who don’t know what a Butt Plug is, let me give you a brief explanation.
The Butt Plug is used to dilate the anus, and by getting used to its insertion, men can perform prostate masturbation and anal sex.
Women can also have anal sex and develop their anal sex zones.
If you are new to anal sex, inserting a large sex toy or your partner’s penis from the beginning can be challenging.
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Dr.sextoy
This article summarizes the use and precautions of the Butt Plug for beginners in anal play.
Best size for each corresponding purpose of anal play
When you actually decide to choose a Butt Plug, you may be wondering which size you should choose. Be aware that the Butt Plug should be sized to suit your purpose.
If you want to insert an anal sex toy to stimulate your prostate, choose a Butt Plug that is the similar size as that sex toy.
Having your anus dilated to the size where you can insert a sex toy will allow you to smoothly move on to the next stage of anal play.
| Purpose | Suitable Size | Best Butt Plug |
| Insert finger | 1 inches |  |
| Anal Toy | 1.1 inches |  |
| Anal Sex Insert Penis |
1.3 inches |  |
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As mentioned above, the size of the Butt Plug you should select depends on the anal play you have in your mind to enjoy.
A small Butt Plug is sufficient for finger penetration, but if your goal is to insert your wrist into the anus, you will need to purchase the largest size Butt Plug available.
Choose the right sized Butt Plug for your purpose.
What you need for anal dilation
The Butt Plug is not the only thing you will need for anal dilation. You’ll need other things to cleanse your anus and lubricant to make insertion smoother.
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The following is a list of items that are necessary for anal penetration.
- Butt Plug
- Anal cleaning products
- Lubricant
- Towel
As I mentioned earlier, the size of the Butt Plug you should choose depends on your purpose. Before purchasing a Butt Plug, make sure you know what size you need to dilate and what size of sex toy you need.
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The anal area is one of the most delicate parts of the body and is prone to contamination, so always wash the inside of the anus with water before inserting it.
If you are trying to get the right amount of water into the anus with your fingers, it will be difficult to get it in and you may get your surroundings dirty. The following items make it easy to inject clean water precisely into the targeted area.
Also, liquid is easily absorbed inside the anal, so the Butt Plug tend to dry out when inserted. By keeping the lubricant as plenty as possible inside, you can achieve smooth insertion.
If you try to force penetration without lubricant, you risk damaging your anus.
At Sex Toys India, you can buy lubricant starting at Rs199. Use lubricant to ensure painless anal penetration.
Be sure to lay down a large towel while doing anal dilatation, as it may stain the room even when applying anal wash and lubricant.
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Steps to dilate your anus with Butt Plug
Now that you know what tools you need to dilate your anus, let’s go over the proper steps to dilate your anus. The following are the steps that every beginner should know.
- Clean your anus
- Massage your anus
- Dilate your anus with the Butt Plug
Let’s take a look at each of these steps.
1: Clean the anus
The first step is to clean the inside of the anus and the area around the anus. I know it’s tempting to insert a sex toy into your anus right away, but you need to be patient.
Using an injector designed for anal flow allows you to accurately put in the right amount of water.
You can fill a container with water, use a syringe to suck up the water, insert it into the anus, and push the syringe in to inject the water into the anus all at once.
It is also available at a low price of Rs527. So it is an essential item for efficient anal dilatation.
You should always clean your anus and insert it in a clean condition before anal play, not just before dilation.
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2: Massage the anus
Once the cleaning is complete, massage your anus with your own fingers. Especially for beginners, the anus is always tense and will reflexively try to tighten the hole when something is inserted.
Gentle massage will gradually loosen the tension and make it easier to insert the sex toy. This is also a necessary step for smooth insertion of the Butt Plug.
The massage is done while lying down on the bed in a relaxed state. I will explain the proper way to massage below.
Apply lubricant to your fingers and anus
Whenever you perform an anal massage, apply lubricant while doing so. Anal is a very delicate area and can be easily damaged if you massage it while its dry.
If you massage it dry, it can be easily damaged. Apply lubricant to the area to make it smooth and reduce the load on the anus.
Anal play is prone to dryness, so if you feel any discomfort at all, add more lubricant.
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Lying on your side
When performing anal dilatation or anal masturbation, it is recommended that you lie on your side with your back rolled up.
This will allow you to relax your body and get closer to the anus, making insertion easier. You will be able to relax and dilate while being free from tension.
Push the outside of the anus with your fingers
Once you are in a comfortable position, you can start massaging the area around the anus. Stimulate the outside of the anus by pressing in with your fingers.
Don’t just stimulate one area, but massage the entire anal area, pushing in all the way. The massage is over when the reflexive closing of the anus gradually disappears and you feel comfortable inserting your pinky.
Insert your little finger slowly
When you feel the tightness of your anus loosening up, slowly insert your thinnest pinky finger into your anus. If you run out of lubricant before insertion, add more again.
Once you can insert your little finger without discomfort, you can insert the smaller Butt Plug.
3: Anal Expansion with Butt Plug
After finishing the anal massage with your fingers, you can use the Butt Plug to dilate your anus. Let’s check out what you should do when you actually insert the Butt Plug.
Apply lubricant to your anus and Butt Plug
Make sure there is enough lubricant on the Butt Plug even before inserting it; the Butt Plug is made of silicone material, which is gentle on the skin and will not damage your anus even if it is dry, but lubricant will give you a smoother insertion experience.
After insertion, if you feel the lubricant getting dry, add more lubricant immediately.
Insert the Butt Plug slowly
After applying the lubricant, insert it slowly so as not to damage the anus.
If you are new to anal, you may feel tightness or discomfort. Insert it as far as you can without straining.
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Let it blend in as it is
After inserting the Butt Plug, leave it in place and let it get accomodated. If you try to move it or pull it out too soon, you may feel pain.
There is also a risk of damaging the mucous membrane of the anal cavity, so it is recommended that you leave it in for a long time. Inserting it for a long time will gradually dilate the anus.
Pull it in and out slowly
Once you are comfortable with the insertion, slowly insert and remove the Butt Plug. It is recommended that you insert the Butt Plug when it is wet with lubricant.
If you are actually inserting a sex toy or penis to enjoy anal play, it is a good idea to get used to inserting a Butt Plug that is about the same size as those.
Prepare yourself for actual anal play by dilating yourself by inserting and removing the Butt Plug. using the Butt Plug correctly will not only allow you to dilate your anus, but will also allow you to experience anal masturbation.
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Precautions for using Butt Plug
There are some things you should be aware of when using the Butt Plug. Please keep these points in mind to expand your anus safely.
・Use plenty of lube
・Do not force it in
If you are a beginner, you may damage your anus by using a large size butt plug or forcing it in. Don’t be in a hurry.
Use plenty of lubricant
lubricant helps to smooth out the massage and insertion into the anus. If you don’t add lubricant frequently, you may feel pain during insertion and removal.
It is recommended that you add lubricant every time you feel the Butt Plug getting a little dry while inserting it.
In the previous section on the procedure, I introduced the 30ml small volume type, but there is also a 200ml large volume type. If you are worried about it drying out, or if you want to buy the large capacity type and use the lubricant sparingly, I recommend the following items.
Don’t force it in
Don’t force yourself to insert a Butt Plug that is not the right size for your anal.
If you are new to anal play and try to insert a larger size, you may damage your anus.
If you are new to anal play, start with a Butt Plug that is about the thickness of your finger and work your way up.
If you dilate your anus to the size of a fist, your anus will become less tight and your ability to hold in your stool will decrease.
Always enjoy anal dilatation and anal play safely and don’t overdo it.
Dr.sextoy
How to maintain the Butt Plug
Since the Butt Plug is an item that stimulates the anal area, it is very important to maintain it after use.
- Wash off the dirt from the Butt Plug with water
- Wash the Butt Plug with hand soap
- Rinse with water again
- Wipe it dry with a towel
The Butt Plug after use in anal dilatation is dirty. First, wash off all the dirt with water.
Water alone is not enough to completely remove the dirt, so use hand soap. Wash off the hand soap and residue with water.
Dry the Butt Plug thoroughly with a towel or something similar; the Butt Plug is soft, but it is sensitive to heat and moisture.
The Butt Plug is very soft, but prone to heat and moisture. If you leave it in a hot and humid place, there is a risk of melting or deformation of the surface. Store it away from direct sunlight with as little humidity as possible.
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Summary
It is difficult for anal beginners to insert a large size sex toy or your partner’s penis from the beginning.
Try to use the Butt Plug correctly and expand your anal space gradually at your own pace. The following are the recommended Butt Plug sizes for different purposes.
| Purpose | Suitable Size | Best Butt Plug |
| Insert finger | 1 inches | |
| Anal Toy | 1.1 inches | |
| Anal Sex Insert Penis |
1.3 inches | |
You can find many more Butt Plugs at Sex Toys India.
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