Spankers and ticklers toy?
Spankers and ticklers are sweet side of BDSM play. It is not part of bondage. If you know what bondage is?, then you can differentiate them. The one who is not comfortable with the bondage toys, can try spankers and ticklers and their various types. It is beginner toys that make every user to face a new face of BDSM play. Find why. It does not restrict any of sensation, but it increase the sense of user and known as kinky play. As beginner, if you are thinking to add it in foreply, then first you should check the correct way of use and what precaution you should follow to make this kinky play easy.
What are Beginner BDSM Spankers and ticklers?
BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism. BDSM is an adult toy which people use during the sexual activity. In the market varieties of BDSM equipment is available such as bondage, tape, gag, spanker and tickler, rope etc. Among all the BDSM equipment some of the toys are especially recommended for the beginner couples such as cuffs, gag, spanker and ticklers etc.
Spanker and ticklers are one of the most popular BDSM equipment. If a couple uses the spanker and tickler during the BDSM sex play then it provides the complete control over their partner's pleasure. During sexual activity when people get spanked by spanking BDSM toys then it causes the rush of the blood to the particular area of the body which enhances the sensation and makes them excited. Of course, these toys are often used together with dildos, vibrators, etc. as a beginner's toy so that they can be used in conjunction with other toys.
What is kink and kinky sex?
Kink is a term which is used to describe an extensive variety of sexual exercises that are thought to be unusual or strange. The sexual activity such as spanking, dripping candle wax on the skin, participating in orgies, swinging and role-playing in included in the kinky.
Years back, many people would not talk about kink and kinky sex. It was a demand to be inappropriate. But now a day, kink and kinky sex are not only accepted but it is likewise turning into a type of speciality stimulation in India.
What is spankers?
The spanker is a BDSM sex toy designed in a way that is used to hit the opponent. It has been used during sexual activity to enhancing pleasure. The spanker sex toys are used by any of the people. Mostly spankers are used by male partners as dominant to their female partner to spank on their butts. A couple can use the spanker during the role play as a punishment in a BDSM scenario or even during intercourse to increase the sensation.
In the market there are varieties of spanker toys is available. A couple uses spankers toys to enhance the sensation in the body. Actually, spanking can increase the blood flow and activate the nerve ends. The best way to use the spanker toys is to use on hand first. First, you should rub their hand slightly and spank lightly in the upward motion. Once the partner gets comfortable with this, they can apply it to the sensitive part of the body with harder or more frequently.
What is Ticklers?
Ticklers is a BDSM sex toy which people used during the sexual activity for sensation play. Some of the tickler toys are designed in such a manner that it has a long, thin handle with a soft and smooth feather on another side whereas some are shaped like a feather duster. Couple use these toys to tickle their partner skin. Most of the people prefer the tickler toys during the foreplay to enhancing pleasure.
A couple uses the ticklers BDSM sex toys for a different purpose. When a couple uses the tickler toys then the measure of weight and diverse strokes that user use with the toys can create a wide range of the sensation. A couple can apply the ticklers toys to the sensitive part of the body such as armpits, arms, inner thighs, nipples, breasts, thighs, clitoris, penis, testicles etc. for more arousing sensations and pleasant feeling.
Is spanker & Ticklers are bondage?
Spanker and ticklers do not belong to a bondage category. It is a type of kinky. It is sorts of approaches to explore the sweet side of torment or pain and become more acquainted with what turns you on the most. Not to limit any body part. Along with the spanker and ticklers, a couple also uses some other bondage toys for restriction.
Different type in spankers and ticklers
As you know that in the market varieties of spanker and ticklers are available. It is important for you to select the correct spankers and ticklers. A couple can select the spanker and tickler according to their need, choice and budgets.
Types of spankers
User can find different type of spankers according to the material. Different material gives different touch and sensation to the skin while using. Let's check out material to decide one.
Leather
This is one of the most common materials which is used to make the BDSM toys. The spankers which are made with the leather materials looks very sexy. This type of spankers provides a stingy sensation during the BDSM sex play. The spankers which are made with the leather material is perfect for the beginner couples because the pain which occurs due to the leather spanker could not be so deep and intense.
Rubber
Some of the spankers are made with rubber. The rubber spankers are generally made in such a manner that it is thick and dense. If the couple prefers the rubber spankers then it provides them with an intense, ripples play. The people who have little experience can easily use the rubber spankers during the BDSM sex play.
Wood
The spankers which are made with the wood is only used by the people who have lots of experience. Wood spankers are hard, heavy hitting, thick and often wide. This type of spankers is dangerous because it provides a deep and intense thud. Wood spankers are very smooth and it can easily slide over the body to increase sensation.
Types of ticklers
In the market different types of ticklers is available. It depends on a couple which one they prefer.
Leather
Tickles is made with varieties of material. The leather is one of them. The leather which is used to make the ticklers is either high quality or medical grade. A couple uses the ticklers during the BDSM sex play for pleasure feeling. Leather tickler is used by any of the people either experience or beginners.
Feathers
Feather tickler is one of the most common and popular ticklers. Most of the people prefer feather tickles because it is non-intimidating and easy to use. Feather tickling provides a unique sensation and enhances pleasure during sexual activity. It is perfect for the beginner couples.
Animal Tails
Some of the ticklers are made with the animal tails. During sexual activity, people use the tip of the tickler to tease the sensitive part of the skin in a circular motion for unique sensation and pleasure feeling. Stroking with the animal's fur provides the silky, incredibly stimulating and smooth feeling. Best for the beginners.
Spanker & Ticklers Usage
If you are thinking to use Spanker, Ticklers or something else BDSM toy in your foreplay, then first you should learn about it, how to use, where to use, safety points, important points, etc. Let's known them.
Ways to use them
Use of kinky toys like spankers and ticklers have numerous BDSM scenes because they are versatile enough in nature.
How to use spankers
First begin with, discussing to your partner. He/she is ready to perform BDSM act or not. If he/she is ready to explore the ultimate fun, now teach him/her about it. Fixed some safe word when to ease up or stop, that you both have to follow every time. Warm up the area where you will spanking. Massage and caressing the area between the buttocks and upper things.
The ultimate spanking sweet spot is the area between the buttocks and upper thigh. Do not spank over the kidney areas, joints, back, neck, etc. Start with the gentle spanks. Be careful about the genitals. Most important is, keep communication with the partner, during a spanking, before and after as well.
How to use ticklers
Although it is not restating or humiliating act, but show etiquette so first discuss with a partner that he/she is ready for it. Bring your favourite type of tickler from the market. Set the room environment romantic with fragranced candles, lights, etc. During SM play, hold the stem and allow the soft tip of tickler to the partner's body with the gentle caressing.
Start tickling from head to toe. It is also a good choice to tickle the sensitive part, it develops extra sensation in a partner and makes him/her arouse. Pay attention to the partner's reaction and manage to tickle according to it. Couples also prefer to use restricting with the tickles, so you should also try it with Blindfolds, Rope, Bondage Tape, etc.
Precaution should remember
The precaution is better than cure, whether it is for BDSM play. Read these safety points before going for the spanking and tickling with a partner. If you are beginner, it is necessary to check them. You should first know about safety points for every BDSM toys.
Safety tips for spankers
- Begin spank process when your partner is ready.
- There is a fixed place for spank, the lower body part buttocks and upper thighs only. Do not spank anywhere, strictly follow this.
- If you have prefixed safe word, it's good. Instantly stop the spanking if partner signs you with safe words.
Spanking sometimes causes rashes, and redness over the affected areas, so you should care about it while spanking. Apply some cool moisturizer, aloe vera gel, antiseptic cream.
Safety tips for ticklers
Ticklers may not be hurt in any way, but still, you should be careful while doing this. Tickling leads to the laughing and a lot of fun, but you should follow the partner's safe word. A safeword is developed to restrict continued activity. Listen to partner, whether he/she is goofing. Maybe too much laugh makes him/her uncomfortable. Always use body safe ticklers. Tickler available in many types and material.
Recommended place for spanking and ticklers
Spanking is to smack someone and ticklers for a gentle tease. Generally spanking is done on the buttocks and upper thighs. Be careful about the genitals and kidney areas. Your partner can stand facing the wall or can stand with facing the floor or you can stand behind him/her to spank or take him/her on the lap. Do not try to spank on the upper body.
First and foremost discipline rule for BDSM spanker is do not spank in anger whatever the position is. Start with spanks on the buttock, take him/her warm-up for the harder hit. Spankers are suitable to hit only on fleshy areas. You should control your strength and should take a second gap in every spank. Where ticklers can be used in every possible position.
How bad a spanking & Ticklers can be?
Every BDSM activity can be a bed if you do it unconditionally. Although the tickling is just a teasing act. We don't think so, it has a bad effect. But spanker can be. It can be bed by physically or emotionally.
As physically, spank in full strength and in anger, can leave welts, scars, cause bleeding, maybe even infection. As emotionally, when an act gets dominating, sub feels fear of hurt, lack of love. It might develop trust issues in partners, etc. So couples should follow the BDSM's SSC(safe, sane and consensual) rule.
Moral reason of spanking & tickling
Well, spanking and tickling in the BDSM world are introduced as a sexual excitement act. Couples use spanking & tickling for a lot of reason. Some feel it is natural or some use it is an informal part of foreplay. Where some use spanker as an emotional humiliation to punish their partner. Yes, spanking and tickling enhance the foreplay act. It is acceptable by the BDSM if the opponent partner is ready to be humiliated. Spanking & tickling can be fun and exciting for kinky players.
Recommended Pickup Item
If you are looking for the beginner BDSM toys, then here we are recommending you some beginner spankers and ticklers that you can use for impact play.
RED Hoipping
Red Hoipping is one of BDSM toy. It is made of leather, so it excites the moment when hit by a person. Both couples can use it on each other. It is a beginner toy. A beginner can use it and make their boredom sexual life happening. The red hopping attaches on body increase the blood flow and you will feel the sexual sensation.
Where I actually used was like this
I liked Red Hoipping. It is very light weighted and handy. Its solid base makes easier for me to hold it. I used to play with my husband. One day we try it, I used it over him and on next he whipped on me. It makes our play, an impact play. It is leather straps so soft on touch and even does not give so much pain to us.
TOKYO Girl Honey Spanking Pink
TOKYO Girl Honey Spanking Pink is spanker BDSM toys. It is made by Leather, Fluffy Felt material. It adds correct sexual excitement while using. It is skin friendly and safer for every skin. It has three metallic beads at the end, so a user can hold it easily.
Where I actually used was like this
I brought a spanker for the first time. I was so excited to use with my partner. Well, he is aware of it and knows how to use. So trusted him and began SM play. TOKYO Girl Honey Spanking Pink gives me best experience, although it is painful. It is soft leather makes me feel good.
